Epictetus: Enchiridion, XX
“Remember, that not he who gives ill language or a blow insults, but the principle which represents these things as insulting.”
Reflection
The sting is real, and so is the gap between the words and your judgement of them. You may not control what was said. The meaning you hand it is still negotiable.
Source record
- Author
- Epictetus
- Original source
- Enchiridion, XX
- Original date
- c. 125 AD
- Edition used
- Trans. George Long, 1877 — public domain
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